A good place to start if you have a technical question, is www.ning.com/help
If you don't find an answer there, or your question relates to some aspect of the Ooooby community then ask it here, and wait a while and someone will get back to you.
If you think you have an answer to someone's question, please DO jump in and help them out.
LIkewise. I think I'll just go back to the way I've done things in the past - too frustrating and time wasting. Sorry!